Friendship is something that I hold close to my Heart and I guess that pretty much my Friends would have known that by now. But there is one thing that many would ask is what does it take to be a Friend and what are the limitations of Friendship.
From wad I think abt this is that there is no Standard answer to that. It all depends on the understanding of the person that becomes ur friend.
However I do Know for a fact that Friends stand by you when you need them in times of danger or Sorrow and that Ur friend is someone who Does something for u (can be a favour, something to make you happy, consoling you when u are down or anything for the matter) and DOESN'T EXPECT ANYTHING BACK at all, Now that is true friendship.
Friends who come to you and help you, For example a friend helps you to do your school work and then tells everyone about it and then telling you that you owe him/her one then its not helping out cause you want to but in a way of getting someone to do something for u in return. Plz dun spoil the word of friendship with your ideology cause not everyone has to agree with that type of mindset.
Friends - Foe or Family??
Labels: Friendship
Wednesday, June 11, 2008
1:33 AM
Watched this indian movie by the title Thozha (which in english means Friend).
The story revolves among 4 friends and how they face challenges in their life together.
The 4 characters are Veluchami (a Villager who comes to the city to find the Lover of his sister who cheated her),
Arivalagan( a degree holder who still can't get a job for about 5 years already),
Gajini( who dreams of becoming a hero for a film and the last guy well i forgot his name so lets juz name him
Prakash lol...( who is the sole breadwinner who helps this other guys).
Well Prakash works for a architecture firm and he is well to do. He was given a chance to go to a village to carry out some architecture plans and thats when hero meets his heroine. They both fall head over heels with each other. One day Prakash juz playfully asks her whether if she would die if she found out that he has an affair, and she tells him that she will not do something so stupid but get married to a better guy and live happily showing him on what he has missed. This is one crucial part to the movie so do take note.
After that prakash goes back and he gets himself a head injury while on site. Only to check with the doctors and find out that he has a rare head disease and he is only gonna live for a few months. Devastated at his current situation he could only think of his love back in the village. He was wondering how he going to make the gf understand that when he remebers the Quote that the gf said. ( which is stated in Red). He writes a letter and he randomly sends a gals photo together wit the letter to the heroine.
Back at the village the gal reads the letter and commits suicide and the brother Velu comes to the city in hopes of findin out who the lover is. Coincidently he seeks help from prakash and he stays over at his place to find the lover.
While all this happens, they would show how prakash helps to make the dreams of his frens gajini and arivalagan come true. Behind the scenes he helps Gajini become a hero. He also gets arivalagan married to the gal that he loves. All this in the expense of using up all his influence and money.
In the end velu will find out that prakash is the lover and not knowing the truth will get him arrested only to find out the truth at the court hearing itself on what his intention really was for sendin that letter and that he is going to die. The movie ends with Prakash dead.
The movie taught me something abt frenship and that a true fren would do anything just to see his fren happy. It also taught me that you should give more like love,care security, money and expect less and nature would takes it course to help you in life for ur good deeds.
It also made me think about how much to an extent
we would love our loved ones and looking out for them.
Random thoughts that can nv be answered??
MoMo Out and Over
Labels: Friendship, Thozha